Girls, What do you think is still normal to do? [Archive]

S&T Kawaii Love

05-22-2005, 02:06 PM

Serene852

05-22-2005, 03:13 PM

I don't know why but I think that it's for females more common to give each other a hand then for males.

If males, who are not adults, hold hands, they will be quickly assumed as homosexual.
As for girls, I doubt that society will label them like that, or at least not as quickly.
There's a limit for both, but I believe that girls generally receive more tolerance in the 'closeness' of their relationship than men.

Black Magus

05-22-2005, 03:33 PM

If males, who are not adults, hold hands, they will be quickly assumed as homosexual.
As for girls, I doubt that society will label them like that, or at least not as quickly.
There's a limit for both, but I believe that girls generally receive more tolerance in the 'closeness' of their relationship than men.

That's true, even though it pisses me off
I could go to a movie with my best friend since like kindergarten and we're automatically "gay" because we're just close friends
That really bugs me

Mai Tokiha

05-22-2005, 03:50 PM

There's absolutely nothing wrong with girls going hand in hand.
Girls are often much closer with each other than boys would ever be amongst themselves.

Zapper216

05-22-2005, 08:25 PM

Do you think kissing for example between girls is also still something that can be done without being lesbian?

from what i've heard yes (course my info may be wrong)

hyde69

05-22-2005, 08:44 PM

i dont care about Bi females >: ) is ok with me. i cant imagen 2 guys holding hands as friends. thought unless they're gay..

burnout

05-22-2005, 08:51 PM

Today I saw two girls walking hand in hand in public at a trainstation. They looked very happy. But I did not know if they where just doing it for fun or, if they really had a relationship.

I don't know why but I think that it's for females more common to give eachother a hand then for males. So this question is more based towards females. But males can apply too.

So girls what do you think about this? do you think it's normal for females to hold eachother hands and walk public? Or do you think they are lesbian if they do that?

Also what would you still accept females doing? Do you think kissing for example between girls is also still something that can be done without being lesbian?

Kissu to you all

for guys, if they hold hands then people immediately gets the message that them two are gay. i know it's harsh but that's society for you. girls on the other hand send mix messages depending on how dirty your mind is.

kissing as a greeting or as a thank you is very common. so i don't think people need to go banzai over two girls kissing. but if they're doing french, then we have a different story ^_^

ShadowVlican

05-22-2005, 08:52 PM

TaronWarrior

05-22-2005, 09:04 PM

I think that any two adults holding hands are in a relationship most likely. I don't mind anyone doing that, but kissing, especially passionately, in public really grosses me out. Ugh, PDA is not my style. Hugs are cool. At about 15 or so, if you're holding hands with anyone, I'm going to assume you're in a relationship.

Dis

05-22-2005, 09:25 PM

*prefers to be free from holding...
Always best to walk your own pace...

Shybal Noom

05-22-2005, 10:14 PM

umm... no comment... o wait, yes i do have comments...
DEVIL WORSHIP!!!
lol
im not a strong believer of the bible, but, anything that is with the same sex is just wrong... holding hands, still wrong. holding hands is a sign of affection, if you were friends, i wouldnt hold hands, unless that person is like, 10 years younger than me... but otherwise, totally wrong.
lol
now, if one was dying, then it turns it all around... plus, lesbians... are NEVER hot, seriously, the porn industry make it seem like all yuri action is hot, but, usually one or both females look like men...
lol
its true!!! dont give me those eyes!!! in my school we acutally have a couple of gays and les... i know, what is happening to our world, but its true
anyways, when i see them, i literally feel like throwing up, its just sickening... well, i said my 2 cents worth, and dont take anything i say seriously... seriously.
lol

-4 lol's in this post-

Silex

05-23-2005, 02:45 AM

Just reading your comments I think we've come to the current conclusion already. I don't hold my friend's hand but we're always "touching" like resting on each other's shoulders and hitting each other. Most guys have a personal space of like 10ft, but mine is more like 5in. To each's own.

mikeon

05-23-2005, 03:12 AM

Something I've learned in school.
0-14 inches is your intimate space
14-24 I think is your personal space
24+ is everything else.

Intimate space for people in relationships, personal for your friends, and 24+ is strangers.
It's also less uncomfortable for opposite sex to be in close proximity to each other and be in personal space, but if you have same sex it's all "whoa, I'm not liking this vibe. You're invading my personal space man."

Then there's also the 1 step rule on esculators, where you stand one step or more behind the person in front of you and then there's also the elevator rule.
when you're one, you have full reign, when there are two people, you each take one side, three people you have two in a corner and one on a side forming a triangle where everyone is at their max distance away from each other. Anymore than 3 and things start to get unconfortable.

camoss2001

05-23-2005, 03:26 AM

I think the whole girl girl, guy guy, holding hands thing is just a cultural thing in our society. I mean, the way people seem to percieve things to be is, girl-girl - good friends or lesbians. With guys the first thing people think when they see guys holding hands or giving strangely long hugs(i kinda agree with hug part) is that they're a pair of gay guys. Which isn't always the case and i find it to be unfair. But even as i say that i realize that the first thing i think when i see two guys holding hands is well, " damn, those guys are gay''. Thats one thing, but hugs is annother thing. How do we know that those guys aren't just hugging because they haven't seen eachother in a while? maybe one of the two has done something considerably generous ( not ment derogatorily ) , to the point where the guy is just "compelled" to hug.

I dunno but I myself aren't really botherd by homosexual relationships. I mean you can't chose who you love. You are who you are and i believe that people's feelings and sexual preferances should be entirely up to them and that they shouldn't be ridiculed for it.

Now the whole PDA thing is up for grabs. I mean, some people are just offended by a show of affection. Me, i personally enjoy it. I like to let the whole world know just how much i care about a person. And that i'm not afraid to be intimate with that person just because other people may be watching. Now i'm not a freak, i don't wanna go have sex in a park or anything like that but, I see no harm in a little kissing or a gentle caress here and there. If i see something like that while i'm walking down the street or waiting in line at the movies, its kind of cute. Even though it sucks when your alone because it makes you remember times when you were the one kissing the beutiful girl, when you were the one in heaven. Actually its down-right depressing some times but uhh... yeah. If you guys haven't notticed by any of my previous posts, i kinda elaborate on each subject A-LOT more than the original topic requested. Sorry if that bothers some of you ( or all of you)

Anyways, thats all i wanted to say on the subject, so if anyone wants to talk or whatever just PM(personal message) me. I only say that becuase its so hard to find an active forum at 5:24am.

virtual_mage

05-23-2005, 06:40 AM

Well i live close to one of the bigest gay city in the world:montreal.So its pretty commond to see women and guy hold their hand together here.I dont think its bad,why hapiness of someone would not be a good thing?I will be honest to say 2 guy kind of make me unconfortable but still ,i accept it.Anyway who i am to juge someone thats what i think :)

Haruharu Haruko

05-23-2005, 06:53 AM

Well, I guess it comes down to the way they are holding hands. I mean i've held hands with my friends before, but it's only really in a jokey, fun kind of way. If the two girls are casually walking down the street holding each others hands, not really thinking about it....then i'd probably say they're a bit more then friends.

As for kissing, usually it's just playful again, but it all comes down to the way they kiss each other. If they're being a bit intimate, looking into each others eyes, holding the kiss, then i'd say that they were in a relationship.

When friends kiss, or hold hands it's only ever a playful sign of affection it's never really serious. It's when it gets serious that it becomes something more...

MariMekko

05-23-2005, 07:41 AM

It's also less uncomfortable for opposite sex to be in close proximity to each other and be in personal space, but if you have same sex it's all "whoa, I'm not liking this vibe. You're invading my personal space man."

Then there's also the 1 step rule on esculators, where you stand one step or more behind the person in front of you.

People tell me that in the mens' room they preferably use urinals at least with 1 empty one between them...

But remember for escalators it's also for safety that you don't use the step immediately behind another person. If that person is slightly slower on getting off you risk running into them and tripping yourself. I'd also prefer no one hitting me from behind when I'm getting off so I walk ahead as soon as I can.

FrozenDreamseer

05-23-2005, 07:48 AM

Hmmm....well, in my school, tons of girls kiss. Not in a lesbian way. Like, they just kiss the others cheek really fast. Sorta like what the Europeans do. They also like...walk down the street arm in arm. That isn't really lesbian or gay. Hand in hand though...yeah. For some reason, that does seem to be a homosexual thing.

I think guys are expected to be tough and detached, which is why if one sees a man close to another man it sends off signals. "Gay gay gay gay gay!!" I don't think that stuff really matters to me. *shrug* Can you really help who you like?

Maria Renard

05-23-2005, 09:04 AM

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shintai_88

05-23-2005, 09:26 AM

I guess it just looks better when girls holds hands, plus i guess if you are at a young age from 5 to 16 then i guess it just look like friends and nothing more.

Draco888

05-23-2005, 12:10 PM

blah all this for something as simple and kind or even endearing as holding hands......shame on u all !!!!!!!! :p

it only becomes a problem if people start exaggerating it..like with all the lovy-dovy-stuff
kissing a couple times in public : oooohhh, how nice they are in love
kissing cstly => Ok.....We know already...... go get a room !
and dragging the whole lesbian/gay thing into this , pffffffff some of u really disappoint me........ people =people, no matter what religion,collor,sexe,sexualpreferences,etc !!!!!

Bubblemonkey

05-23-2005, 12:23 PM

"We are merely exchanging long protein strings. If you can think of a simpler way, I'd like to hear it."

Seriously though, it is just a cultural thing. In the US, guys have this macho, emotionally detatched thing going on and since holding hands implies emotional intimacy, most straight guys wouldn't be caught dead doing it with another guy. Women, who are perceived as being more open with their emotions, don't have the same stigma.

Knifes

05-23-2005, 06:07 PM

hmm... its still the same situation for practically both gays and lesbians although there's the obvious influence that lesbians are more accepted than gays...

if your walking down the street holding hands... its a symbolic gesture indicating a relationship. You and the other person are just pressing and asking for a judgment. Whether that may be one of distaste, question, sexuality etc... but you will be judged

Just try it with one of your same-sex friends in a public area with a relatively decent amount of people around you. Hold hands and walk say 200 meters... you will be judged more than you ever did in your entire life, practically guaranteed.

Women are simply more accepted because of the so-called male view on this matter... the porn industry knows what guys appeal to -raw sex ...while on the other hand most women want intimacy. The pride that men have is probably the main reason why society has the view today... mix that in with a lil religion and conservative views... and poof...

DarkDweller

05-23-2005, 10:56 PM

There is nothing wrong with girls holding hands not even at full grown woman but with men and boys it can be a different storie, even kissing between two girls aint that bad can be friendship or relationship only way to know is to ask and most of the time they dont care what other people think

Zefiriss

05-24-2005, 04:00 AM

Women holding hands can be all. I only hold hands with someone I'm in a relationship with. Period. But that's just me ^^ Others ar very cuddly. I simply am not because it confuses me and because I don't want guys to touch me - so I can't hold hands with them - and girls, well -> as said, confusion.

Anyway...
Someone please tell me Shybal Noom is joking, else he'd really need a "close minded dork" award. ^^

But then, I doubt he is, since he mentions a silly stereotype that only really, really stupid people even mention(since it is on the same level as someone saying "the earth is a cube"..)

"Lesbians look like guys".
It is really easy to see why you have to be be on the mental level of a rock to believe this - reality has many examples for this being wrong(take some of the actresses in L-Word :P) - just like male homosexuals aren't feminine in general(some are extremely masculine and would beat most of the haters to a pulp easily).
The ones who are looking more like the other gender either lean towards transsexuality, or are of a subgroup(femme boys, butch girls). Both types are not a majority in the whole homosexual community. Saying they are shows that one has no clue what they are talking about.

But then, we all know why some lonely guys always spread these stereotypes: Pure jealousity. Sorry that some lesbians are extremely sexy, but not avaible :P It's like three-year-old children who get told not to take toys belonging to other childdren. "I didn't want to use the toy anyway, it's ugly, nyah".

there's the obvious influence that lesbians are more accepted than gays..

I wish, knifes. Either you have dorks claiming all lesbians look "ugly", or you have them accepting two girls together - as long as they arouse a guy and are up for a threesome. Simple proof - watch what happens when a lesbian couple goes in a bar(for example while travelling and wanting to get something to drink), and the first guy thinks they are friends and tries to pick one of the two up.

You'll have hate immediately. Seen that often enough.

NvadrApple

05-24-2005, 06:58 PM

Well, I think it is much more open with girls. Where I live it is generally acceptable for them to hold hands or just be more...I guess you could say "cosy." I mean, they even stand closer together than guys do. Of course, one thing I have begun to notice is that the girls I hang out with seem to act more like guys are "supposed" to. They'll hit each other in the arms or mess around like that.

But, it is WAY more acceptable for girls to be close with each other than guys. If people here saw two guys holding hands the first thing that they would think would be that the two are gay. :rolleyes: There is still a mindset that guys have to be all "macho" and unfeeling.

venger

05-24-2005, 07:25 PM

I don't think its a problem for two ladies to hold each others hands in public...
Be it they are having a relationship or not...I guess, its a girl thing.
:)

Knifes

05-24-2005, 07:57 PM

Women holding hands can be all. I only hold hands with someone I'm in a relationship with. Period. But that's just me ^^ Others ar very cuddly. I simply am not because it confuses me and because I don't want guys to touch me - so I can't hold hands with them - and girls, well -> as said, confusion.

I wish, knifes. Either you have dorks claiming all lesbians look "ugly", or you have them accepting two girls together - as long as they arouse a guy and are up for a threesome. Simple proof - watch what happens when a lesbian couple goes in a bar(for example while travelling and wanting to get something to drink), and the first guy thinks they are friends and tries to pick one of the two up.

You'll have hate immediately. Seen that often enough.

Well in your example... couldn't it be vice versa with the girl trying to pick up one of the guys? ...although highly unlikely and that females will most likely be more "docile" about the situation, some kinda offense will still be there. Besides, that could go for a regular couple as well... how in world would you know they're bi-sexual?

People will regardless try to pick up coupled people anyway unless they are "imitate" together in gesture and body movment. Your example isn't exactly the best per say... I would have to agree with you... on that lesbian couples being more accept because they have the connotation that "will want" another person, when sometimes thats not the situation.

and for the comment about "all" lesbians ugly... well of course that's not true, cause its just based on your exp. and what you see in a limited range :D:p

diablic

09-26-2005, 06:32 AM

I don't think its a problem for two ladies to hold each others hands in public...
Be it they are having a relationship or not...I guess, its a girl thing.
:)
Me to especially when i not often go out ^^ only when i have to, for example to school
and i don't care of that is someone girls walking hand in hand in public or where ever the wont

xaero

09-26-2005, 06:54 AM

aye.. its a normal thing.. some of the girls in my school hold hands.. the boys behind them teased them by following them (holding hands) and we had a good laugh.. but the gurls are not lesbians or anything.. ^^

Fallen Angel

09-26-2005, 12:16 PM

The way people perceive things are based on age, culture, society, and personal feelings or thoughts.
The way I see it with holding hands you are less than 10 years old, I wouldn't think anything of it. If you are older than 10 then in my eyes the is something going on between you two. Same goes for kissing but even a bit younger then 10 they should at least know something about what kissing is.

ORIGINALY POSTED BY Shybal Noom
its true!!! dont give me those eyes!!! in my school we acutally have a couple of gays and les... i know, what is happening to our world, but its true
Actually I think it was worse before, when rome was around relationships between men and men were normal.

FenrisLoki

09-26-2005, 01:13 PM

in america, ranked from OK to not OK for holding hands in public

male-female > female-female > male-male

from my psychology professor... but believe it or not, in other countries the reverse is true....
I believe you. For example, in middle eastern countries and India it's far more common for members of the same sex to associate with one another and thereby show affection for one another, even when it's not sexual. It's much less likely for members of opposite sexes to be seen together, even less so showing any form of affection at all, because then it looks sexual.

In ancient Rome or better yet Greece, there was no such thing as a heterosexual or homosexual. There were married opposite-sex couples, yes, but beyond that anything went. I don't think that's any "worse" than now; it was simply freer.

recca

09-26-2005, 05:40 PM

I've got no problem with girls who's holding each other hands, I'm always doing that with my friends and we always kiss each other cheeks when we saw each other. It all depend the way those girl where doing it. And if they're lesbian who cares... and here where I live even people you just met for the first time in a party or something like that sometimes, if those people are friends of people I know, I kiss them on their cheeks girls or boys and nobody ask question.

I know guys who hold each other hands in the street are probably, well definitly gay but thats an other story. But boys who, when they didn't saw each other for a long time are hugging to each other it's not a problem for me as long it's not on the mouth but even then thats their life and they can do what they want with it.

ashikun

09-27-2005, 03:16 AM

Yeah I guess girls are closer. But it's also more feminine.
I mean, kissing a guy on the cheek? That's feminine and femininity amongst guys is almost always associated with homosexuality.
Giving each other a hand or a quick hug is enough for guys.. we don't need to go prancing around hand in hand kissing each other on the cheeks all the time..
Just sends out a bad vibe. I wouldn't be able to sleep at night knowing I just walked hand in hand with a guy.
No offence towards gays cause I'm very open-minded. It's just that straight men don't do that. They see it as a way of showing affection. And they only wanna do that with girls.

Koshiba

09-27-2005, 02:59 PM

I was walking hand in hand with my best friend a while back, we were just playing around. And we had some guy in a car drive by and yell out in a bad way that we were lesbians. :( So no, I don't think it's okay to walk hand in hand anymore.

ashikun

09-27-2005, 03:03 PM

Pissed off cause he thought he saw lesbians?

This guy's my Anti-Ashley..

Denamic

09-27-2005, 03:18 PM

ashikun

09-27-2005, 03:20 PM

Yeah break up with her.

I wouldn't wanna be with someone who's in love with someone else. It's not right.

If they invite you to a threesome that would be AWESOME, but don't stay in a relationship with her. Have some dignity. ;)

Denamic

09-27-2005, 03:26 PM

Hey, hey, hey now. She trusts me enough to tell me her deepest secret, and you want me to break up with her because of something like that? She doesn't love me any less because of it, and I trust her more than I trust myself. I think things like this is more common that you'd think.
And there's no way I'd be able to break up with her just like that.

sMoC

09-27-2005, 03:29 PM

My girlfriend is in love with her best friend who also happens to be a girl.. I'm not sure if I should be sad, jealous, exited or confused. Well I am confused. This is a very troublesome situation. Well, her friend IS pretty, smart, funny, social and very nice. Any guy would fall for her, so I guess I understand her feelings.. It's odd, but I have to deal with it somehow.. I haven't figured out just how yet.
Don't bother to ask anything more personal, this is as far as I go. Tips are welcome, though.

As long as you love each other I see no problem at all. if not you should concider breaking up. If she loves a man or a woman doesn't really matter.

S&T Kawaii Love

09-28-2005, 11:47 AM

As long as you love each other I see no problem at all. if not you should concider breaking up. If she loves a man or a woman doesn't really matter.
She still is your best friend. So I would stay with her. If you love her however it's a different situation. Then it's hard. I don't know how she would react if you confessed. It may change your friend relationship or not. In anyway I would not end the friendship. She may have temporary crush on that girl that could go over. You never know what the future brings.

Denamic

09-28-2005, 02:40 PM

No, you never do. But I doubt it'll turn out bad. Awkward, but it won't break anything. I know them both well enough to know that. But then again, you never know.

ashikun

09-28-2005, 03:35 PM

I love my girlfriend to death, but I'll break up with her in the blink of an eye if she tells me she's in love with someone besides me..

Plenty of fish in the sea..

sMoC

09-29-2005, 10:38 AM

I love my girlfriend to death, but I'll break up with her in the blink of an eye if she tells me she's in love with someone besides me..

Sometime the heart can be deceiving. Not like you can do much about it.

miko

11-20-2005, 08:21 AM

holding hands, hugging even a friendly kiss are all normal to me. Kissing with tounge though would be over the line.

kitearch

11-20-2005, 08:31 AM

Holding hands and hugging seems more normal to gals as gals are closer between themselves than guys

ribbons

11-20-2005, 11:10 AM

i am always seen walking hand in hand with my friends. i get lost if i dont... but really. its not a big deal holding hands. kissing on the cheek is standard too. saying 'i love you' is common too, cuz girls are generaly more aware of feelings and understand that the 'i love you' means 'your my friend and i love you, but i dont like you like that.'

unless they are at full out making out or feeling eachother up its hard to tell. then again, its still hard to tell, me and my friends will punch each other in the boob in public, and that misleads a lot of people.

a friend of mine was with her sister and they were walking to the light rail station holing hands. it was cold and one of them had forgoten her jacket so they were hugging and some guy was looking at them like they were lesbians. that only pissed them off so when they were on the light rail one sat in the other's lap and they pretended to be lovey-dovey just to piss the guy off. girls are just like that.

so, i guess, in general, if you want to know if 2 girls are lesbian the only way to know for sure is to ask them.

eMKa

11-20-2005, 01:55 PM

so, i guess, in general, if you want to know if 2 girls are lesbian the only way to know for sure is to ask them.
Or you can kiss one of them and then see what's happen,in the worst scenario you can be slapped twice,and then you will know if other girl is jelous,and in the best solution you will be slapped only once by girl you kissed:p

ribbons

11-20-2005, 07:47 PM

or they both slap you because they think your an idot and you dont find out anything
*not ment to imply that you are an idot, just what i would do... actually, it depends how well you kiss. if it was a good kiss i might... but i digress*

icie

11-21-2005, 06:33 AM

But i beat up my friends all the time. Like I slap them and stuff. Does that count?

L4mE

11-21-2005, 07:01 AM

hmm well preety much still normal to me at least woman is more care to each other than man.
i believe man only hold hand with the one that really importan to him like girlfriend so that is why the community thinks that way
but girl in the other hand is more caring to other like to friends

deadmantiz

11-21-2005, 07:57 AM

Sobakasu

11-21-2005, 03:56 PM

I know some females that walk hand-in-hand and are straight, so it's not necessarily an indication that they're bisexual/lesbians. I'm sure that plenty of the ones that do that are bisexual/lesbians, but it's not always the case. I guess some women just have sisterly bonds and enjoy holding hands.

ArchWing

11-21-2005, 08:07 PM

basically what i think is this

boys who hold hands proves that they are either gay, or etc.
girls on the other hand can't really tell what they up to in society

so you can't really tell what reason why girls does this in my opinion

ribbons

11-21-2005, 09:43 PM

Hmmm in terms of sexual initmacy, how far would girls go at different stages of a relationship or outside a relationship? I've had chicks who gave me a BJ for 2 drinks and a chick who got someone(never actually found out who) to try to beat me up when i tried to touch her after 20 dates.

Cheers ..just wanna know what the chicks think

depends on the girl and the guy in question. outside of a relationship, in general, if a girl is insecure aobut herself she isnt going to let a guy get anything at all for a long time (oh, i m not pretty enough, that guy would never want to do anything with me) or is gonna put out in about 30 minutes (maybe i can keep him interested if i let him have it all). girls with more self confidance tend to be in between the two extreems judgeing on comfort level with the guy in question or how drunk they are.
if in a relationship i think it just matters how comfortable and how much a girl trusts a guy to determine how far a girls gonna go.

hope that helped or at least answered the question at hand.

bunnywink

11-24-2005, 10:54 PM

Koranzu

11-27-2005, 03:23 AM

Let me be honest,I think "gay" is wrong-period,sorry that's me BUT it's also none of my beeswax so meh.
Holding hands is also my limit to people in a public place gay;hetero;whatever please god don't go suckin' face in front of me ok? that's one step to meat pumpin' :eek:

btw I prefer "friend" over "lover" when I'm with a woman....the f***ing just comes natural later on. :D

So no,I don't freak at somebody holding hands...nor do I go ape when they swap saliva...but I wish they would do it elsewere.

BlondeDevil

11-27-2005, 03:40 AM

miko

11-27-2005, 07:07 AM

It's hard to tell. I think for girls it's easier for us to express an intimate bond with another girl, even if what we share is just friendship. It's odd that some people find two males holding hands discomforting, whereas two girls holding hands non-threatening... But yeah, you can't really dismiss factors like age and culture, because they may play a huge part in how you view what is in front of you.

I myself prefer to link arms with my gal pals. I guess it confuses people less. =3 But sometimes one of my best friends will flirt with me in public just to confuse and tease guys. o_x;

Same here, linking arms is easier sometimes but harder if you have one friend on one arm another on another and so on and so on it blocks the pavement. I find flirting like that is a very good way to tease guys, a kiss or hug or even dancing together doesn't hurt either :P

miko

11-27-2005, 07:11 AM

Is all up to the person that is doing it.. as long as thhey do not mind what other people look at them as.

for example: for some Girl friends, they find it normal to kiss or hold hands..but not every girls do that.We might presume that they are lesbian, but they are actually just best friends.Even sisters Hold hands..

BUT, for males... is just plain homosexual, even if its just holding hands...unless they are trying to be funny.

I do not realli encourage females to hold hands and kiss one another.. but if its just friends or sisters... i guess its ok.. But if its lesbian... God Bless You.

Imagine a world with only gays and lesbian... WHO WILL GIVE BIRTH!? lol..

This is not a problem anymore, It has been proven that two females can have a baby together, they take out the egg and fertalize it or something without sperm, just with their partners egg. However their baby will always be female, so eventually "mankind" will be extinct and women-kind will still be around. Cool huh?

miko

11-28-2005, 06:37 AM

no jinjin what I meant is different to artificial insemination which is what you described

ribbons

11-28-2005, 05:02 PM

jinjin confused me...

@Miko:

This is not a problem anymore, It has been proven that two females can have a baby together, they take out the egg and fertalize it or something without sperm, just with their partners egg. However their baby will always be female, so eventually "mankind" will be extinct and women-kind will still be around. Cool huh?

so that means that if only women were on the earth we would still be able to reproduce, but if it were all guys it wouldn t work? cuz the whole 2 sperm needing an empty 'shell', right?

sorry, i m too lazy to look this up on my own...

wow, this is so off topic... oh well.

Denamic

11-29-2005, 12:37 PM

Right, right. I guess we've got that covered then.. and 'morally correct' is a very abstract concept, since it's different from person to person and from culture to culture. I know best. You know nothing. NOTHING I SAY! Back to topic.

Dulcimer

12-05-2005, 03:45 AM

Don't worry. Heaven and Hell will sort this matter out. That is what they are there for.

ashburn98

12-05-2005, 07:32 AM

They can do anything they want in public, I won't care as long as no genital areas are involved. Seeing two males kissing is pretty much nearing my limit.

BruceKO

12-05-2005, 02:51 PM

It doesn't suggest homosexuality. It is also OK for boys to hold hands in public.
There are only three cases in which u see 2 men holding hands walking on the street.
1. they are just kids who doesn't know better
2. one of them is blind, or physically handicapped, or really old
3. They are gay

xort

12-05-2005, 11:53 PM

My girlfriend is in love with her best friend who also happens to be a girl.. I'm not sure if I should be sad, jealous, exited or confused. Well I am confused. This is a very troublesome situation. Well, her friend IS pretty, smart, funny, social and very nice. Any guy would fall for her, so I guess I understand her feelings.. It's odd, but I have to deal with it somehow.. I haven't figured out just how yet.
Don't bother to ask anything more personal, this is as far as I go. Tips are welcome, though.
And you don't see the clear answer here?

Girlfriend says she loves other female friend, and inless she said she no longer loves you...

So lets look at it Mathamaticaly
Girlfriend + Girlfriends' female friend + YOU = threesome.

To the topic:

Girls holding hands... odd but not wrong.

To replies, I think men can form much closer relations with other men than women do with women. We just don't expess it in the same way.