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NinjamasterGara
08-19-2008, 11:08 AM
Ok i was just wondering cause i have seen many a polls about girlfriends and being single. I myself though am married , for about 5 years now. So i was wondering how many other people here are married or even engaged to someone, and ya i count common law as being married.

jackguan
08-19-2008, 11:15 AM
does E-marriage count?

NinjamasterGara
08-19-2008, 11:23 AM
Sorry jack but i am gonna have to say no on that one.

shiracld
08-19-2008, 11:59 AM
married and hentai are 2 different worlds.....
if you add loli and guro to that then it's another dimension

i'm married to my laptop......does that count~?

jackguan
08-19-2008, 12:04 PM
married and hentai are 2 different worlds.....
if you add loli and guro to that then it's another dimension

i'm married to my laptop......does that count~?

bet bill gates was at ur wedding.

kingx11
08-19-2008, 12:08 PM
married , been 6 months now :)

burnout
08-19-2008, 12:20 PM
not married but been together for 6 and lived together under one roof 2 of those 6 years. currently in the pre-engagement stage.

jackguan
08-19-2008, 12:28 PM
glad to see most here are engaged and married, while not lonesome and pedophiled.

inxaract
08-19-2008, 12:31 PM
married , been 6 months now :)

- :O
- i can't imagine that you are married .
- you are a young geek lurking video game and hi-tech conventions&shows in my imagination .
- anyway , enjoy the your newlywed life .

kingx11
08-19-2008, 12:36 PM
- :O
- i can't imagine that you are married .
- you are a young geek lurking video game and hi-tech conventions&shows in my imagination .
- anyway , enjoy the your newlywed life .

lol really? you don't know about my double life huh?!

the wife knows about my love of video gaming , but other than that she knows nothing (anime-hentai-HF) it's because i'm a normal guy who's not afraid of touching his geeky side


i hope you'll come back here 1 day and annouce you'r getting married :kakashi:

Athias
08-19-2008, 12:41 PM
I'm not married. I'm only 21, so I don't see much of a point in getting married this early. Though I did propose to my x-girlfriend when I was 17.

solarenemy
08-19-2008, 12:42 PM
I made that mistake once......... Once!

burnout
08-19-2008, 01:02 PM
ah the divorced club. anyone wanna keep solarenemy company?

NinjamasterGara
08-19-2008, 01:25 PM
Athias, yes wait , you are still young, i didnt i am 24 , we make 5 years in November and we have two kids now 3 1/2 and 1, if i had a chance to go back i would wait, enjoy it.

tgxstep
08-19-2008, 01:36 PM
Athias, yes wait , you are still young, i didnt i am 24 , we make 5 years in November and we have two kids now 3 1/2 and 1, if i had a chance to go back i would wait, enjoy it.

You married at 19 huh? Quite early... currently I'm still single but when I've heard of many accidental marriage in my circle of friends where they continue to regret I'm starting to consider whether it's a good idea to get married that early. :P Hope you enjoy your marriage life NinjamasterGara.

rkobe
08-19-2008, 01:45 PM
Marriage is not a word. It's a sentence....(a life sentence!).

Marriage is a 3-ring circus - engagement ring, wedding ring and Suffering.

My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met.

I've been married so long that if I wasn't born a boy, I'd have nothing to play with!

ShadowRFox
08-19-2008, 01:51 PM
Founder of The Single for Life group...

So yea not married....

NinjamasterGara
08-19-2008, 01:52 PM
^ LAWL, very humorous.

tgxstep - i think its better to wait, but i am also happy that "I" didnt wait, it difers person to person

Goddess Althena
08-19-2008, 02:10 PM
It's a good idea to wait until an older age before getting married and especially if you're planning to have children. :p It'd be nice to have a somewhat stable career and a position where you can actually find the time and devotion to commit to more responsibilities or deal with potential conflicts with your partner.

A couple of my friends and people I've attended college and university classes with mostly all regretted it. Even one friend I know has two children to look after and she's only 23 years old. On top of that huge responsibility she still has to contend with her university studies which makes it very difficult to do well academically while trying to look after and take her children to school, look after them and so on. Also, it's no easy task when you have to study at home and have too many distractions from the children whining or seeking attention and care that just breaks your concentration to do well far too often as she has experienced almost daily. Some of the others just have trouble dealing with disagreements or constantly annoying habits that most of us have that does interfere and cause relationship and daily life strain.

I'd say hold out before devoting yourself to marriage and secure a stable career beforehand, as potential conflict and the burden of extra responsibilities or tasks placed on you and your partner and/or children. Although some young couples may be successful and stable in their daily life and routines already, the potential risk of burden and hardships is always their and I believe is better off avoiding until a later time. If you're lucky enough to have a partner that is easy to get along with, than lucky for you. :P For me, I'd rather not take that chance and contend with that only until I have the time to deal with it.

NinjamasterGara
08-19-2008, 02:16 PM
Very well said princess.

Wh1t3y3t1
08-19-2008, 02:19 PM
it my own little way its one of my dreams to get married and have a family :pika34:

inxaract
08-19-2008, 02:20 PM
it my own little way its one of my dreams to get married and have a family :pika34:

- you are so happy .

Wh1t3y3t1
08-19-2008, 02:21 PM
- you are so happy .

i am? hows that work if you dont mind me asking?

bunnygirl
08-19-2008, 02:53 PM
In the paper sense, no. But otherwise I consider myself married.

cyress8
08-19-2008, 03:00 PM
Founder of The Single for Life group...

So yea not married....
*Also a member*:kakashi:

animedoll
08-19-2008, 03:11 PM
Marriage isn't so bad until you need to go to the bathroom at the same time and there is only 1.

inxaract
08-19-2008, 03:16 PM
i am? hows that work if you dont mind me asking?

- because you have a dream to make real yourself again .

Wh1t3y3t1
08-19-2008, 03:20 PM
- because you have a dream to make real yourself again .

ah I see now and thanks

Rick
08-19-2008, 05:35 PM
Founder of The Single for Life group...

So yea not married....
Being a member of the social group ShadowRFox speaks of, it goes without saying that I am not engaged, let alone married. Not like I plan to ever get married in the first place. The concept of marriage as a whole has little appeal to me (if any). However, in case that happens (which I strongly believe it's unlikely), I'd only get married after securing a stable career beforehand as PrincessAyeka said:

I'd say hold out before devoting yourself to marriage and secure a stable career beforehand, as potential conflict and the burden of extra responsibilities or tasks placed on you and your partner and/or children. Although some young couples may be successful and stable in their daily life and routines already, the potential risk of burden and hardships is always their and I believe is better off avoiding until a later time. If you're lucky enough to have a partner that is easy to get along with, than lucky for you. :P For me, I'd rather not take that chance and contend with that only until I have the time to deal with it.

tan1368
08-19-2008, 07:43 PM
I'm single.It's not a big deal being single in a sense.I'm still studying and have to focus on my study.With all the things going,it's not easy to get a girlfriend anyway.Everyone just so focus in their study.

bobuild01
08-19-2008, 10:03 PM
I firmly believe in marriage and if my current woman would accept marriage I sure would again.

tgxstep
08-20-2008, 01:42 AM
In the paper sense, no. But otherwise I consider myself married.

Married to...? Work? lol


Founder of The Single for Life group...

So yea not married....

Nice to see some of the Single for Life club here! Let's enjoy our single lifestyle the best we could. :kakashi:

Satelight
08-20-2008, 03:59 AM
option 2 winning by a mile...

burnout
08-20-2008, 06:57 AM
option 2 winning by a mile...

considering the demographic of this forum, i'm not surprise at all

doviis
08-20-2008, 01:46 PM
Engaged 4 times.
Computer is my new girlfriend >:D

maumastoks
08-20-2008, 01:49 PM
Not married. I just turned 17

LordOink
08-20-2008, 09:56 PM
If only I could meet a girl who ISN'T a total moron, and could be sweet, kind, and open, I'd be a happy guy.

Psycho Le Cemu
08-20-2008, 10:05 PM
Obvious not married was going to win this. We are all geeks at heart..... and on surface. :P

Chaotic Heavens
08-20-2008, 10:12 PM
A longtime relationship. As of my knowledge, no plans of engagement or marriage. I wouldn't mind either of those, but definitely a "no" for kids.

darkandshadow
08-20-2008, 10:13 PM
I was thinking about getting engaged with
my Ex, but I wasn't completely balanced
with finances.

NinjamasterGara
08-20-2008, 11:19 PM
Obvious not married was going to win this. We are all geeks at heart..... and on surface. :P

I guess i got lucky then, my wife watches anime plays mmos and is a member to HF also, but she just hasnt excepted that she is a gook too ;D

NinjamasterGara
08-20-2008, 11:20 PM
^^ lol i meant geek not "gook" ^^

VIXuke
08-28-2008, 12:01 AM
xDD I agree with Shiracld.

Does marrying my PC count?

V666p
08-28-2008, 05:42 AM
Good god ! Hayeate is married ? What terrible sin did that man/woman commit to deserve such a fate.

As for me, decided not to get married unless I met the perfect woman/women.

Beam7 Network
08-28-2008, 06:11 AM
Marriage always seemed to me like something that's rather inconvenient, so that's why I mostly try to avoid the subject whenever I'm asked about it

To be honest, I can't imagine myself living with a woman, I would have to love that person in a way that's just impossible for me to conceive, very unlikely to happen, so chances are, I will never marry.

April Angela
08-28-2008, 06:33 AM
not married :p
if i were, then i won't have kids or just 1

Tuyet Phong
08-28-2008, 01:18 PM
your kidding me? this is HF, dude, where lonely people hang out so that they have something to fill their life
btw. no and never

TheShadow
08-29-2008, 10:20 AM
yes and Engaged !

shiracld
08-29-2008, 11:09 AM
!__!~

married AND engaged~!?
i'm telling on you >__<~

JimBond007
09-09-2008, 10:53 AM
Still single...... I don't find yet the (perfect?) woman. Kids ? Definitely a NO. Well, not before my Japan trip. I'd like to go there with a "free spirit"... if you see what I mean b/c kids bring a lot of problems lol .

animedoll
09-09-2008, 01:10 PM
^ get a nanny/babysitter for a few days. grand parents are great too!

Lord Zero
09-09-2008, 01:42 PM
Ok i was just wondering cause i have seen many a polls about girlfriends and being single. I myself though am married , for about 5 years now. So i was wondering how many other people here are married or even engaged to someone, and ya i count common law as being married.


Mmm... well, im not... and dont plan to in the near future...
Im too busy in research work, i dont have enough money to sustain
a family... and it would seriously jeopardy my independence...
And im a little worried... im too focused in science, my wife would
feel like i dont love her enough and we would end divorced anyway...

bubbles123
09-09-2008, 06:06 PM
Not marry.
Why? I am not ready for a marriage.
XD

garykid
09-10-2008, 06:28 AM
thank god im still single
its a little hard to imagine the life after marriage

my best wish to those who are already married
u r real hero desu! good luck:kakashi:

Dark One
09-13-2008, 03:25 PM
Still single, still free... at least for the moment. :)

Capt.Linger
09-13-2008, 08:06 PM
Single but I do plan to marry somewhere down the line.

mahouneko
09-14-2008, 08:35 PM
Wrong section. Should be under Poll Discussion.

PunkDaddy
11-11-2008, 09:52 PM
Married. 3 Kids. It is a real blast.

I understand waiting until ready, but I was ready in my 20's. Knew I wanted to have kids before they could kill me- my youngest will be a teenager when I'm still in my 40s, so I'm doing OK there! I have several friends who still aren't ready and may never be.

S&T Kawaii Love
11-23-2008, 08:23 AM
Not marry.
Why? I am not ready for a marriage.
XD
Same here. I don't even have a gf yet. If I am married I wouldn't be here XD.

ChickenFire
11-23-2008, 08:38 AM
Married seems so far far away...

annieangel85
11-27-2008, 05:27 PM
i guess you can say that im almost married,i've been with my bf for 7 years now.And he has said to some people that "we're kind of married". and im not in any rush to get married for real.

BOFH
11-28-2008, 04:58 AM
One option is missing, "You've gotta be kidding me". ^_^

Almost got married about ten years ago, our parents (yeah, on both sides) talked us out of it. I understood their reasoning all too well - and am still single. :neko:

skipa
03-31-2009, 09:28 PM
married for seven years now. She doesnt give a crap if im on the computer and i look at whatever i want to, just as she can too. Our relationship is based on NO jealousy or silly fights about entertainment. We enjoy life to its fullest though we dont own much.

CrimsonFlare
04-03-2009, 04:35 PM
I've been married for 7 years! My anniversary was March 8th.

Maria Renard
04-21-2009, 03:59 PM
im married :p

Gao~!

OoiSaru
05-02-2009, 06:49 PM
Ask me it 5-7 years :p

Ctrl Alt DelBR
05-02-2009, 07:10 PM
Well, that's my phobia. I'm g.i.r.l., so that's expected.

AngelsThesis
05-02-2009, 07:22 PM
does being married to ur work count?

Halucard999
05-23-2009, 01:17 PM
married since 8 months

Azsu
05-23-2009, 08:39 PM
Old and single... Well, probably not for long. Parent's getting pretty fired up over this issue since I got out of college -_-

micky21761
05-25-2009, 10:13 PM
im not married woooo!!! so happy to be single for now.....

Akiha Tohno Vermillion
07-02-2009, 07:10 AM
not married!but ive a boyfriend lol!

stevetsocko
08-15-2009, 06:34 AM
Not married. Hoping to marry a pretty girl someday though, even though unlikely

sailabc1
08-15-2009, 09:08 AM
Suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuure I am. To my computer, if that even counts XD

Sadame
09-19-2009, 12:32 AM
I am not married and never plan to be. I have "commitment issues".:smoke1:

ebattleon
09-19-2009, 02:17 PM
i have bee married about 5 years, and yes the wife knows about my hentai habit.