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    I guess I should start by letting everybody know that Guro turns me on. I've been into it since I first saw it about two years ago, but outside of sexuality, I am a perfectly normal human being. Yes, HUMAN BEING.

    Anyways, I was looking online for some guro when I found this little gem of a discussion. Now, I wanted to respond directly to the thread and not freshly throw myself out like I am now, but it was closed:

    "Originally Posted by solarenemy
    Actually the question is very simple and direct. How can a human be turned on by guro? It's just that simple. I mean turned on in a sexual way. It does not matter if you are just looking at it or performing the act. How can anyone with an once of moral or even respect for life and others be turned on by such acts or pictures. I guess I was raised in a different world. I can not fathom the idea of a HUMAN being aroused by such acts or pictures. I can not even conceive calling such a person a human if they indeed can get aroused by such acts or pictures. To me, guro goes beyond a fetish and borders on a disorder. Also for the record, guro is a stand alone genre it is not really a subgenre of hentai. At least that is how I see it. Lolicon, scat, BDSM and water sports are all fetishes and even people who like pain and torture could be fetishes. But guro goes beyond pain and most always results in the death of the character it is being performed on. I mean seriously. Roasted woman, drowning women, women impaled on sticks, women with open skulls getting screwed in the brain, or even screwed in the eye socket which by the way is a physical impossibility unless your are a very small man. How can any of these things arouse a human of normal mind set. What is normal you ask? Well thats a good question. Normal would be the average Joe who fits and the box and conforms to society. I know most of us like to hide behind our monitors and act all rebellious and in a rage against morals and conformity, but when it comes down to it and we all leave our computers to goto work or school we are in fact just like all the other conforming cookie cutter people we pass daily. This is the normal person I speak of.

    I just pose a simple question. Can anyone here honestly say they would be aroused watching a friend or loved one or even a total stranger being torn apart and having strangers walk up and screw the opening left in the body from various parts being removed? That is what guro is and that is what I can not fathom being aroused by. The thought of even sticking my manhood in an opening other then a living mouth, vagina, or back door makes me sick and most certainly prevents me from getting aroused to even perform such an act.

    So the fact I am not aroused by this kind of stuff, does that make me abnormal since everyone seems to thinks its just a fetish and normal to be aroused by a fetish.

    I am not talking about be made happy or being excited. I am talking about being purely sexually aroused by the topic. Is there anyone who can masturbate and climax to the site of a person being shredded or ripped apart and cut up? Of course I would be crazy to think someone would seriously confess such a thing.

    I just can't believe human minds can distort something so horrible into something arousing."

    I also need to add this response from the same fellow to one of the comments in the thread:


    "Why the FUK do you keep bringing up Loli? This question is about one topic and one topic only. As I said if you would have bothered to read. Non of the other fetishes result in the death of the character or person. Guro is about a person being killed in a horrible way and somebody getting aroused by it. Guro is not a genre of hentai either. It is its own genre. To me Guro only covers one thing and that is death in a horrible way. Mutations and things like that where the participants don't die is not guro. Guro should only include acts that result in death. At least that is my interpretation of it. There are other things that are lumped into it but that is due to poor interpretation of the poster.

    If the person does not die then it is not guro. It is simply torture which is yet another fetish.

    This discussion is not about any other topic then guro. SO DO NOT compare it to or bring other topics into it. Also loli discussions that start using the "P" word will get you banned. So refrain from using the "P" word.

    You people are all trying to rationalize this as just another fetish which it might could be but I think this is why you miss the reasoning behind my question. So lets try it from another approach.

    How can anyone get aroused by watching another person get horribly murdered and killed? How can a person get aroused by sticking their manhood in to holes from a freshly removed body part? How can a man get aroused by wrapping warm intestines around his manhood?

    I am not talking about just a fantasy world here, I am talking in real life as well. I believe and you would be stupid to not believe it yourself that for many of these fantasy taboo and forbidden acts that we all see all the time that could be physically possible that there are people out there really performing them. It is these people that I am asking about."


    Well, I believe that I can put this question to rest. Firstly, I think that so many people were bringing in loli and beastiality because it is less of a question about the acts in guro and more of a question regarding the psychology of sick sex. Personally, the thought of a little kid having sex disgusts me, and i couldn't see how that could turn somebody on, so I am throwing that out there for any loli freaks to answer.

    Back to my point. I guess the best way to answer your question is to start with a few disclaimers. I should start by saying that I have no desire to "Stick it to the man" as was mentioned in the thread. The fact that it is taboo has absolutely nothing to do with why I look it up on those "lonely" nights. I am also not some murderous psychotic. Pretty much the main reason I look at guro is so that I don't do it in real life. It's a great venting tool, and I am very much aware what commiting these acts in real life mean to the families of the victims, and I would never wish that on somebody. Finally, I was raised in the same world as solarenemy. In fact, I feel very blessed to have the parents that I have. I pretty much gre up in a very calm home, with no fights, drunks, or deviancy of any kind. I was really born this way.

    To explain how this all came about, I should start off with a little history of my life before I realized that I was into death. The first time that I had sex, I found myself very aroused by the sounds of my partner's voice. Later on, she started to get a bit louder, and it turned me on even more. Now, I'm not sure if this may have contributed in any way, but I listen to mostly rock, metal, that kind of stuff, so I have grown accoustomed to screaming. The only deal is that I am heterosexual, and hearing men scream had done nothing for me, but a couple of weeks later, I had scared my friend (who's a girl) as part of a prank. She reacted to me jumping out from a corner by screaming, and she did so as if she had been stabbed. Before then, I had never heard it mainly because I don't really watch slasher flicks. I don't know if you've ever heard it, but the sound of a woman screaming, and I mean truly screaming, is something that really gets your adrenaline pumping. For me, the sound was the scratch to my itch. It seemed that I could only reach maximum arousal if A woman screamed with all she had. Later that night, I watched a couple of scenes from some slasher flicks, and had the same result as earlier. Not long after, I found the band named torsof**k. They use a lot of inspiration from guro, and use samples of horror films' audio for their music. I hadn't seen guro yet, but I started masturbating to the audio samples from the music. I had already seen a lot of bondage, and would start associating the samples with bondage. After a while, though, It seemed unrealistic to me. I started thinking about the women getting stretched a bit further than they should have been, or having objects that were a bit too large being inserted into them, and like pieces to a puzzle, it made sense. I guess I always knew I was a sadist, but it wasn't until two years ago did I realize the extent.

    I was looking online for a gas mask, when I accidentally stumbled upon a guro site. I found the pictures fascinating, but not because of the huge amounts of blood used in the drawings. It was their faces. I really compliment the artists who draw guro, because the faces of the women seemed dead on to how it would really be. The anguish, the feeling of hopelessness in their eyes, I saw that and felt the most exiting erection I had ever experienced.

    I think that (and I can't really speak for every guro fan) I'm turned on by the energy that is spent on death and dying. I heard somewhere that when a body is killed, half of the energy it used to sustain life is immediately dispersed into its surroundings. I feel as if I am given some of this energy, even if I'm only a witness.

    There's also the sheer curiosity of it all. you experience intercourse, then wonder what oral feels like. You experience oral, then wonder what anal feels like, you experience anal, then you wonder what lung, intestinal, or reverse oral feels like. think about it.




    P.S. I will be checking this thread for the next week or so, so feel free to feed your curiosity with questions. On the internet, I'm an open book.

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    • #3
      well for me it looks normal to me, it's something like you found your hobby or affection. nothing wrong with it as long as it remained in fantasy .

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Volk View Post
        There's also the sheer curiosity of it all. you experience intercourse, then wonder what oral feels like. You experience oral, then wonder what anal feels like, you experience anal, then you wonder what lung, intestinal, or reverse oral feels like. think about it.
        I thought about it and I can conclude that I don't understand you.

        But I'm not going to reject your fetish. I'm a sadist myself but not to the point of enjoying girls scream in pain. More in "tease because you like that person" kind of way if that makes sense.

        If we are establishing what some people like to call "norms" of psychology, there are also people who enjoy being inflicted with pain, masochists, and they generally seem to be more accepted by those people than sadists are. It's always going to be a double standard as long as an individual puts himself in the center of the universe (although I'm not going to point fingers).
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        • #5
          umm... ok.

          just don't bite other people's bottom while you're at it. I hate to see people fighting over such small issues and such.

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          • #6
            Interesting Topic. Finally someone with the nads to man up and admit it. Now Let me get this out of the way...

            Thats Fucking Gross.

            I mean that with the utmost respect, but it is my opinion on Guro, Period. Everybody has their own things from incest to Loli to Guro and everyone is entitled to that... At least you arent enforcing it on people and going on about how everyone else is wrong.

            To Each his own.

            Now For a Question...

            Why is it that torture and The like... not enough for you why must the persons life be ended in a bloody mess? What makes it so much different? What turned you on in the first place? what Kept you looking at it when most people instictivley Look away when they see something like that?
            Last edited by AyaKunoichi; 02-20-2009, 03:50 AM.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by AyaKunoichi View Post
              Interesting Topic. Finally someone with the nads to man up and admit it. Now Let me get this out of the way...

              Thats Fucking Gross.

              I mean that with the utmost respect, but it is my opinion on Guro, Period. Everybody has their own things from incest to Loli to Guro and everyone is entitled to that... At least you arent enforcing it on people and going on about how everyone else is wrong.

              To Each his own.

              Now For a Question...

              Why is it that torture and The like... not enough for you why must the persons life be ended in a bloody mess? What makes it so much different? What turned you on in the first place? what Kept you looking at it when most people instictivley Look away when they see something like that?
              Like I said in the thread, I already knew I got aroused from torture because of what would happen whenever I heard the screams of women. After I started looking at guro, what turned me on was the thought of the sounds that the women were making. Then, I guess like Pavlov's Dog, I automaticcaly would feel aroused from the sight of guro without needing the audio help.

              Now that I think about it, I did turn away the first time I saw it, but it really got to me. I couldn't get the thoughts about it out of my head for the next few days. I needed to see it again, but this time, I grew very aroused, and couldn't help but fap to it.

              Although, I don't NEED to see actual death. I can watch everyday porn and function sexually without any problem, but guro is such a turn-on for me because of the mix that should never happen in real life: Sex and Aggression.

              A few years ago, when I took psychology, my proffessor discussed the topic of sexual phenomena. When we reached the subject of rape, he explained that there is a significant mental similarity between acts of sexual nature and violence. Basically, rapists are people who have the wiring in their minds messed up so that acts of aggression and sexual acts produce the same result: arousal. I feel like somebody with the same mental problem as a rapist or murderer, except for one critical difference. These people have underdeveloped parts of the mind that tell them to stop; that control urges. I have no such underdevelopment in these areas, and can keep myself from ever commiting these acts in real-life. In fact, if I ever come across any kind of gory image involving women, I make sure that it is either a drawing or from some movie or something and not real before fapping to it. I cannot even imagine the idea of committing these acts in real life, but this doesn't mean I don't have the fetish.

              I feel like I am similar in many ways to fans of loli hentai. Most of the ones I encountered were people who were turned on by the images, but found real-life pedophilia disgusting. They had the part of the brain that told them not to do it for real, but were otherwise pedophiles (or at least that's how I feel about them).

              Does this answer your question?
              Last edited by Volk; 03-19-2009, 04:11 PM.

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              • #8
                How about this...
                It's disgusting?
                Killed my fawking boner.
                Go let someone do that Guro shit to you, I bet you'll still love it then.
                I'd usually ignore crap like this but this is way outta line.
                Practice what you preach, go let someone do Guro to you, it's nice.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by bower95 View Post
                  How about this...
                  It's disgusting?
                  Killed my fawking boner.
                  Go let someone do that Guro shit to you, I bet you'll still love it then.
                  I'd usually ignore crap like this but this is way outta line.
                  Practice what you preach, go let someone do Guro to you, it's nice.
                  Im very sure that this isnt a bahs thread, everyone is entitled to their own opinion though.

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                  • #10
                    Okay, so guro scares me. But I admit i have weird fetishes that i'm not proud of either, since (im assuming) who ever posted the thread about guro being disgusting is here too, he has fetishes as well. We can't stop people from judging others in real life because society sucks, but since we all know we're "special" here, I think we should just accept others and as long as they don't pop the eye out of someone you know and start fucking them in the balls you should let this go.

                    As for why, i mean there are worse things, i recently found out how disgusting medieval torture is, (google top 10 medieval torture devices...if u dare =[ ) and that makes 2d animation of guro seems less disgusting simply because this one is actually practiced, quite often during the inquisition as well im afraid.

                    And as for the psychology for it all, im sure there's a huge explanation for it, i have a theory my self, but it all boils down to the fact that we are all, to a slight degree, disturbed and should either seek help if need be or accept eachother.

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                    lol, VOLK's really open about it all. I wonder if its just internet anonymity or thats just the way he is. Either way, i think its cool (not the part of being turned on by women's scream of anguish) but again, that's who he is and im just as sick.

                    I think we should start a thread about the psychology, i have a feeling it will be interesting. About perversions and fetishes and acceptance by society and etc.
                    Last edited by xShikii; 03-01-2009, 07:39 PM.

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                    • #11
                      Um...how do you guys define Guro?
                      Guro as in any CG with limbs and blood and gore and such? Or does it have to involve with sexual situations?

                      I played and enjoyed games by Innocent Grey and Nitro +, they have quite a bit of gore .. but I don't recall having sex and gore at the same time.

                      In any case, I don't mind Guro ... or any hentai fetish really. I think every fetish can have an artistic side to it, and that's the best thing about hentai.

                      On the other hand, Guro as fapping material is not exactly my thing, but then again it really depend on the artist and how it is done. Good artistcan illustrates some amazing things that you can never experience or accept in real life, just keep a open mind is all I'm saying (that and no one is actually hurt IRL) .

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by bower95 View Post
                        Go let someone do that Guro shit to you, I bet you'll still love it then.
                        I'd usually ignore crap like this but this is way outta line.
                        Practice what you preach, go let someone do Guro to you, it's nice.
                        First off, if you read anything about what I said, you'd know that there is nothing for me to gain by practicing guro on myself. I'm no masochist, you dip shit.

                        Also, I think you should be the first person to thank god that I DON'T practice what I preach, because if I did, you'd see me in the five o' clock news. Hell, you'd probably see your mom there too.

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                        • #13
                          You really have to ask yourself why though... and try not to rationalize

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by xShikii View Post
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                            lol, VOLK's really open about it all. I wonder if its just internet anonymity or thats just the way he is. Either way, i think its cool (not the part of being turned on by women's scream of anguish) but again, that's who he is and im just as sick.

                            I think we should start a thread about the psychology, i have a feeling it will be interesting. About perversions and fetishes and acceptance by society and etc.

                            Well, I don't really go around parading my fetish, but I am much more open about it than any other guro fan in real life. My parents, sister, and best friends know i'm into it, but I'm not sure if anybody else really knows. I'd admit it if asked, but would otherwise keep it quiet.

                            I'm really busy at work right now, but keep an eye out for my name during the weekend 'cause I think i'll start a thread (unless you or somebody else has already started one, then i'll just join in on the discussion).

                            Originally posted by thinkingofaname View Post
                            Um...how do you guys define Guro?
                            Guro as in any CG with limbs and blood and gore and such? Or does it have to involve with sexual situations?

                            I played and enjoyed games by Innocent Grey and Nitro +, they have quite a bit of gore .. but I don't recall having sex and gore at the same time.

                            In any case, I don't mind Guro ... or any hentai fetish really. I think every fetish can have an artistic side to it, and that's the best thing about hentai.

                            On the other hand, Guro as fapping material is not exactly my thing, but then again it really depend on the artist and how it is done. Good artistcan illustrates some amazing things that you can never experience or accept in real life, just keep a open mind is all I'm saying (that and no one is actually hurt IRL) .

                            When I say guro, I mean fapping material. I say this rather than "Sexual Situations" because, for me, the drawings don't really need to have any kind of insertion to be fapping material, but it can't just be ANY kind of gory drawing. I don't get anything out of watching gore that involves guys.

                            Originally posted by Lilith785 View Post
                            You really have to ask yourself why though... and try not to rationalize


                            What do you mean? I don't mean this in a condecending fashion, I just don't quite understand the question. When you say "try not to rationalize," are you telling me to explain this on a more personal level?
                            Last edited by Volk; 03-19-2009, 04:15 PM. Reason: Wording was off.

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                            • #15
                              To ask why is to rationalize.

                              What she wants you do to is say you're a sick bastard. Having read your first post start to finish it would seem you are at the very least, civil.

                              If some of my friends knew how crazy some of my fetishes were they'd probably tar and feather me. But here in Hongfire they are quite the norm. (I'm not SomeWhiteGuy crazy) Guro seems to be one step beyond that point where guro is simply not the norm here.

                              I can't explain how I came to be interested in most of my fetishes, I simply branched into them. Have to admit, guro is a tad intense for me.

                              I just had a thought. And from here out this will probably be ramblings.

                              Does anyone remember several months back when HF was threatened to be shut down by that whack job lawyer for supporting loli content? I remember how loud some people screamed when the loli section disappeared from the gallery. I also remember many people claimed "We're not hurting anyone. It's just art. It's not like we want some little kid to actually go through with this sort of stuff." Granted some of them were lieing through their teeth. But seriously, why can't the same apply to Volk and his crew? In a way he is being persecuted for liking something which is uncommon.

                              And isn't HongFire supposed to be the place where no one cares what you're into?
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