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  • Have you ever feel hopeless or useless?

    Well let's just get started shall we?

    Just like the title say have you ever feel hopeless or useless in your life or for the people around you? (Friends/ Family)

    I have a sort story about it:
    When my brother's birthdays, I feel hopeless because I can't give him anything except "Happy Birthdays" word....There is a pop up question inside my head that say "If only I have money, I could buy him something......"

    Then the other is when there is a financial trouble in my family (Thank God we already pass that time) and AGAIN I feel useless because as a son I can't even help my family....."If only I have a job!......"

    Something like that is really makes me mad, the worst thing is they are YOUR OWN family and yet you can't do something to help them......

    How about you people? Have you ever feel like that?

  • #2
    What's wrong with you?

    You should be feeling hopeless and/or useless every moment of your life. Go visit a counselor.

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    • #3
      Hehe
      Don't listen to Mabo, he's just teasin ya.
      I walk in the same shoe you know. No job, no money, but you know when I had a job in the past, I gave almost all of my money to my family.
      If I didn't gave them that much, maybe I could get my licence and even a cheap car for starters, but the past is past.
      I say, don't mop all the time, because it will make worry the people around you who care for you.
      I mean, of course you fell miserable sometimes, but hell, not all the time.
      Can you do something to change this status? If you can, then get up already and make some noise goddamit. If you can't, just try to do your best in your own way, by the granted possibilities.
      It doesn't matter how insignificant it may seem, if you give it your best, then it's nothing you should be ashamed of.
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      • #4
        Hahaha! Don't worry about it csorger I know Mabo just play around ^^
        Yeah, by feeling like that I feel like I HAVE to do something to change! Right now I'm still moving around to remove the "chain" in my body (You know what I mean)

        How about you guys?

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        • #5
          I think you're EMO.
          And no, I don't feel hopeless or useless. I just step forward and do what I'm supposed to do.
          If you have time to lay down in the ground and cry, use it working your brain to solve the problem.

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          • #6
            get a job
            get payed
            got money
            end of problem
            External link added. don't read the Rules

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            • #7
              i see your name and i see the only two things i need to know about you

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Sunakujira View Post
                get a job
                get payed
                got money
                end of problem
                Until now I'm still trying to get one. Should everyone already get a job then fine, I know you guys will give a different answer but..... V_V

                And of course another different answer will be given if your family are a capable one (never have any problem in financial)......

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                • #9
                  I feel yah, bro. Same feeling I had back in high school:

                  - always bullied for no good reason
                  - girls take me for granted
                  - people abuse my diligence, writing talents and good study habits
                  - too shy to face the crowd
                  - all my friends are worthless MMO loving geeks who aren't even there when I need them most
                  - I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WANT IN LIFE

                  well it all changed now...and it will be a freakin long story if I ever recall everything (I remembered posting bout the drastic changes in life before, but that was a year ago and the thread is long dead).

                  oh well, back to work...oh wait...I'm still applying for one! LOL


                  “As if you were on fire from within. The moon lives in the lining of your skin."
                  - Pablo Neruda

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by shitboy View Post
                    Until now I'm still trying to get one. Should everyone already get a job then fine, I know you guys will give a different answer but..... V_V

                    And of course another different answer will be given if your family are a capable one (never have any problem in financial)......
                    been there done that
                    get your whiny ass out there and look for a job
                    can't get full-time go part-time
                    can't get your dream job, be the cleaning service or do manual labor
                    unless you want to rummage garbage can for food.
                    and be dependant on your family for the rest of your life

                    don't blame on your family finance
                    External link added. don't read the Rules

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Sunakujira View Post
                      been there done that
                      get your whiny ass out there and look for a job
                      can't get full-time go part-time
                      can't get your dream job, be the cleaning service or do manual labor
                      unless you want to rummage garbage can for food.
                      and be dependant on your family for the rest of your life

                      don't blame on your family finance
                      Don't get me wrong, I never blame my family for financial trouble, I tough I already say that I'AM to blame because I CAN'T help my family.....now and then.....(T.T)

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Alupihan View Post
                        I feel yah, bro. Same feeling I had back in high school:

                        - always bullied for no good reason
                        - girls take me for granted
                        - people abuse my diligence, writing talents and good study habits
                        - too shy to face the crowd
                        - all my friends are worthless MMO loving geeks who aren't even there when I need them most
                        - I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WANT IN LIFE

                        well it all changed now...and it will be a freakin long story if I ever recall everything (I remembered posting bout the drastic changes in life before, but that was a year ago and the thread is long dead).

                        oh well, back to work...oh wait...I'm still applying for one! LOL
                        Yeah.... basically... ummm ...
                        - My childhood was nothing but bullying until the 7th grade when I decided "to be cool" and start drinking beer (then I really became useless)
                        - The pinnacle of it was drinking 5ths of Jack Daniels to the dome @ 17 yrs old
                        - I smoked a boatload of pot to find clarity, alls I did was find a chick that liked to smoke w/ me and have sex, was pointless, lost years
                        - My job is awful most of the time and I WAY overqualified and underpaid for it (alot of kids are in that boat in the USA)
                        - The love of my life went crazy and now Im stuck w/ "the one who got away" syndrome
                        - The only thing I look forward to and makes me happy (like too happy) is posting on HF, Playing my stupid MMOs, waiting for stupid MMO's, bombing hills on my skateboard, and delusional public behavior
                        - If I try to smoke pot, I get dizzy, sick and paranoid, so thats out of the question
                        - I dont wanna get shitfaced anymore cause its stupid... duh
                        - I wanna build my parents a house but thats not happening (w/ the paychecks im getting)

                        But overall...
                        We were told we were gonna be rockstars, astronauts, and famous important people as we were growing up.... and now... well u know the answer to that
                        And we are very very pissed about it...

                        Anyways....

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                        • #13
                          Mmm. I often feel hopeless, i am a pessimist, so, if I fail in something, the first reaction is to feel like that.
                          I rarely feel useless; I try to be useful to people around me, if this is not enough... It has to be!

                          I have a seasonal work and during winter I study, trying to let my parents save some money; After degreeing we'll see.

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                          • #14
                            post-coital tristesse
                            I have about 5 terabytes of mostly Japanese porn. If all downloads are down I might be able to re-up your request.

                            MY MINI HENTAI COLLECTION

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                            • #15
                              the day i realized i was human
                              Are you one of those humans
                              who are ok to EAT?

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