Something about girls..

zer0kage · #1 08-15-2005, 10:53 AM

Hey there. For those who know me I love them silent girls. I shouldn't really compare but are there really girls in real life like REi Ayanami that sort?

Hmm Rei is too emotionless.. I mean I like girls who appear silent from the outside and when they speak they have a cool tone in them but in the inside they have many thoughts and feelings bottled up within them. However if they develop a strong relationship with someone they become more open to that person. Heck a smile and a laugh from them is so cute and is a sincere display of their emotions from the heart.
eg Blanc Neige from Shining Tears....if you know what I'm talking about.

I want a gf like that and become a key to their heart. The question is are there girls in real life that fit the description above?

burnout · #2 08-15-2005, 11:07 AM

been watching too much school romance anime recently?

sure there are such girls but in my experiences, most of the time they're book worms with no social life or they're messed up in the head. and they're the clingy type and will turn pyscho if you dump her for a hotter chick.

also kinda really hard to approach one. there will be alot of arkward silent moments and you damn well better be a someone who talks alot cuz you'll be the one doing all the talking.

zer0kage · #3 08-15-2005, 11:13 AM

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most of the time they're book worms with no social life

I'm not after nerdy girls you know.

More info and hints please? I will like to hear things and hints from the girl's side too.

NeoBloom · #4 08-15-2005, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by zer0kage

I mean I like girls who appear silent from the outside and when they speak they have a cool tone in them but in the inside they have many thoughts and feelings bottled up within them. However if they develop a strong relationship with someone they become more open to that person. Heck a smile and a laugh from them is so cute and is a sincere display of their emotions from the heart.

Hummmmm, I see what you want to say...maybe because I also like this sort of girl?

But I never have met or seen a girl like that in real life

fujihime · #5 08-15-2005, 02:51 PM

Dude, you've been watching way too much anime. You're setting up near-impossible ideals and you're going to be disappointed in the long run. Besides that, these ideals will bite you in the ass because you're passing over great girls who don't fit your fantasy.

There's really nothing wrong with a bookworm, or a nerd. I'm a ****ing dork who plays magic and videogames a lot. But I'm definitely not shy. There are shy girls in the world, yes. They do exist. And there are very outgoing girls in the world. You want a girl who can only show YOU her feelings... that just screams 'socially inept' to me as they take so much work to open up to someone. Sure, it may seem romantic to be the only one to be able to associate with her, but wouldn't that make your social circle very small? Would you want someone who looked only to you for company without any friends of their own? You'd get sick of that really quick hun. Especially if she starts to monopolize your time and you lose touch with your own friends. Wouldn't that suck?

On the less extreme of cases, we all have something to hide at first from people. Only my closest friends know certain things about me. It's a safety measure that we as humans take since we need to trust someone before we reveal something that can make us potentially vulnerable. Getting closer to someone involves trust, and as trust grows, the sharing of aspirations, dreams, hopes, and emotions grows. It's not just shy girls who have something to hide. I have a feeling you want to share the intimate details and thoughts with someone, more than you're looking for anime-like characters who don't speak. You can't expect that kind of trust to start off right off the bat. Trust takes time to build. The more time you've spent with someone, the more candid they can be about themselves and their sincere feelings.

As I've said in many other threads, there's no point setting up the perfect ideal. When the right person comes along and you just click, you'll know. You may be surprised that they are the exact opposite of what you thought you wanted. Don't limit yourself with something so trivial. Love comes in all forms, and most of the time, when you least expect it.

burnout · #6 08-15-2005, 04:59 PM

words of the wise buddy. you should definitely listen to it. take what you were given and dont be greedy about it. you might as throw your entire life away if you wanna continue down your current path

zer0kage · #7 08-15-2005, 10:55 PM

Thanks for the good advice fujihime especially the last words. Still its not I want them exactly to be like I want to be you see.

I'd *basically* just like my girls to be quiet, aloof and cool headed but sincere in a way. Looks count too.

About the first case...I can just bring that socially inept girl to my friends can't I?

Ermm and about the nerdy girls thing is that I don't like girls who whine alot you see... I'm not being very fussy or anything but I just can't stand whining.

NvadrApple · #8 08-16-2005, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by zer0kage

I'd *basically* just like my girls to be quiet, aloof and cool headed but sincere in a way. Looks count too.

About the first case...I can just bring that socially inept girl to my friends can't I?

Ermm and about the nerdy girls thing is that I don't like girls who whine alot you see... I'm not being very fussy or anything but I just can't stand whining.

But that's what she was getting at...even if you find a girl like that, you aren't going to automatically like her! Her personality and the unique things about her will catch ya. So be a bit more open, because, as fujihime said, "Love comes in all forms, and most of the time, when you least expect it."

Karis Fra Mauro · #9 08-16-2005, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by zer0kage

Hey there. For those who know me I love them silent girls. I shouldn't really compare but are there really girls in real life like REi Ayanami that sort?

Hmm Rei is too emotionless.. I mean I like girls who appear silent from the outside and when they speak they have a cool tone in them but in the inside they have many thoughts and feelings bottled up within them. However if they develop a strong relationship with someone they become more open to that person. Heck a smile and a laugh from them is so cute and is a sincere display of their emotions from the heart.
eg Blanc Neige from Shining Tears....if you know what I'm talking about.

I want a gf like that and become a key to their heart. The question is are there girls in real life that fit the description above?

I've never seen Shining Tears, but I think I see what you are getting at. Some people seem to think you're being unreasonable, but I think it's simply a matter of being misunderstood

If you are trying to say, strong and silent type, but not strong in the sense of being a rough tomboy, then yes I believe such girls exist. There was a young lady in high school I knew, by the name of Laura Yates. I haven't seen her since high school, and am sure she's married and has a different last name and stuff, so no problem giving away such information... Anyway she was absolutely terrific. Not, umm... Not submissive by any means, very much in control of herself. A pleasure to know her really, fits your type exactly. And my type, to be honest. I've only gone on one date in my entire life, and it was with her. I was actually pretty persistent then, but while she was kind and understanding my feelings were not reciprocated. Ultimately we went our seperate ways and parted on good terms. Still have the yearbook she signed. I was in a seriously dark place back then, and it wouldn't have been fair to drag her down with me anyway. But to bring it back to your point, if there's one person like that out there then it stands to reason there's another, and I wish you luck finding her

zer0kage · #10 08-16-2005, 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Karis Fra Mauro

If you are trying to say, strong and silent type, but not strong in the sense of being a rough tomboy, then yes I believe such girls exist.

So nice...thats exactly what I'm talking about. So anymore advice?